We all live in such countries - to some degree. And it takes change on a personal, familial, cultural, and legislative level to really root out problems like this. Where even mothers are complicit in the "boys will be boys" and "men can't control their urges so it's up to WOMEN not to tempt them" mentality, and put blame squarely where it belongs - on rapists (of either sex) and punish them appropriately.