I'm sorry about your camera. I respect your bearing the "burden" so as not to worry your mom, while recognizing that you could count on her in a real pinch. You have your priorities straight and clearly, much as your value your camera, value being accountable and taking care of yourself and your mom even more. I hope that some day, you'll confide in her - when you're really solidly on your feet and shopping for a new camera. Speaking as a mom, she might even want to help out with an upgrade. As a birthday or Christmas present, of course. I'm glad you're friends and good housemates.